The law of attraction can be used to attract any type of experience, including experiences involving relationships. To utilize the law of attraction in your relationships though, it may be useful for you to understand the vibrational nature of relationships before you get started. Once you understand the vibrational nature of relationships, you will be able to better understand everything that happens to you and your relationships as you create the life of your dreams.
Everything in the Universe is energy vibrating at various frequencies along an infinite vibrational scale. You too are made of energy vibrating at a specific frequency. Those you interact with in your relationships are also made of energy vibrating at a specific frequency. While everything maintains its own distinct vibrational frequency, everything also constantly blends with surrounding vibrational frequencies.
As you give your attention to anything, you begin to vibrate in harmony with your focus. Thus, as you give your attention to anything, your personal vibrational frequency begins to vibrate at a similar frequency as the subject of your focus. This vibrational blending also occurs as others give their attention to you as it does with everything else they give their attention.
This is important, because this vibrational blending is constantly occurring in your relationships. As you give your attention to those who you are in a relationship with, you begin to vibrate in harmony with them, but you only begin to harmonize with their vibrational frequency to a certain extent when you first start giving them your attention.
Since you are often only partially harmonized with those who are in your relationships, you have a clouded lens that filters everything you perceive concerning those who you are in a relationship with. The individuals you interact with also have a clouded lens that filters everything they perceive about you and your relationship too.
This filter can play an important role in defining the amount of success any relationship attains. For, if one person has a clouded perspective of a relationship, or the people in the relationship, it may become rather difficult for the relationship to thrive.
This issue arises, because you are vibrating at a different vibrational frequency than those you interact with. Since you are vibrating at a different frequency than those you interact with, you possess different thoughts, feelings, and experiences concerning all subjects in existence. While these differences may be incredibly minute, they are still significant enough to permit misunderstandings to arise.
With this knowledge you can now go forth and create thriving relationships with ease, because you will have a clear understanding of every misunderstanding that arises in your relationship. If a misunderstanding arises, you can be certain that the misunderstanding has only arisen due to your vibrating at a different vibrational frequency than the other person and the issue really has nothing to do with you two as individuals on a personal level.
Due to this phenomenon, every subject you give your attention is only as clear to you as you are aligned with its vibrational frequency. The same goes for your relationships. Your relationships are only as clear to you as you are aligned with them. This occurs, because the vibration of every subject you give your attention must blend with the vibrational frequency you personally maintain. The end result of this blending, a perfect mixture of the vibrational frequency of the subject being focused upon and your personal vibrational frequency, is an understanding that arises from the mixing of the two vibrations.
For instance, if one person in a relationship feels good and another feels bad, and the bad feeling individual were to tell the good feeling individual how they are feeling, the good feeling individual would not instantly feel the same way as the bad feeling individual, but they would feel a mixture of the vibrational frequency which they were maintaining prior to focusing on the bad feeling person and the vibrational frequency of the bad feeling person. Thus, their understanding of the bad feeling person's feelings only goes so far as the mixture of these two vibrational frequencies permits.
Now you can better understand everything that happens to you in your relationships. The next time you start talking to someone about something they are not aligned with, you will know that they are only understanding what you are saying to the extent this process of mixing vibrations allows.