When you do what you can to make yourself more like what you want to be through your actions, clothes, attitude, mood, etc, you effectively eliminate contradictions and purify your vibration which allows you to focus on what you want to experience, and it allows you to focus in a way that you think about what you want as if it is already in your current experience with greater ease.
Everything you experience in life is happening to you due to the way you feel. The way you feel is literally your point of attraction. When you feel great, you are attracting experiences that will make you feel great. When you feel as if you already have what you want, you are attracting experiences of already having what you want.
You can use this knowledge in a very powerful way to create any type of life experience you want to live. If you would like to create a specific life experience, but you are constantly being contradicted by your surroundings, you will likely find the process to be slightly more difficult than it has to be.
If there are factors in your life right now that contradict the experience you are trying to create, you should simply do your best to minimize the contradiction. If you are trying to feel rich all of the time, but the clothes you wear are not very nice and you are constantly focusing on other aspects of your current experience that you are not satisfied with, you will set your personal vibration, the way you feel, your point of attraction, at a vibration that is equal to where you are already are. If your personal vibration, the way you feel, is set at where you already are, your future is going to consist of more of what you are already experiencing.
By simply doing your best to change your attitude about your life, you can truly change your life. When you start to do your best to maintain the thought of having what you want right now, and you start to focus on the feelings of having what you want right now, you will set your point of attraction at the vibration of having it right now and it will become your reality.
The more you improve the way you feel, the better your life experience will become. If you make yourself feel like you already have what you want, you will attract what you want, because the way you feel is your point of attraction. If you start taking actions that are in alignment with what you are wanting, you start wearing clothes that are in alignment with what you are wanting, you start thinking thoughts and feeling feelings that are in alignment with what you are wanting, you start focusing on subjects that are in alignment with what you are wanting, you start focusing on people who are in alignment with what you are wanting, and if you do everything you can to align yourself with what you are wanting, you are bound to find the feeling of what it feels like to have what you are wanting.
And once you know what it feels like to have what you want, and you know how to keep your personal vibration, or the way you feel, locked on the feeling of having what you want, what you want will rapidly become your reality.